{"id":38035,"date":"2018-10-15T20:59:10","date_gmt":"2018-10-15T17:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/?p=38035"},"modified":"2018-10-15T20:59:10","modified_gmt":"2018-10-15T17:59:10","slug":"interpersonal-communication-skills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/interpersonal-communication-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Interpersonal Communication Skills That Will Help You Succeed In Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Interpersonal communication skills are essential in creating success, and they\u2019re so simple to learn.<\/h2>\n<h3>What are interpersonal communication skills?<\/h3>\n<p><em>\u2018Interpersonal communication skills\u2019<\/em>\u00a0is another way of saying <em>\u2018people skills\u2019<\/em>. In other words, they are the skills that we use every day when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/communication-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">interacting with others<\/a>. We use them in communication, collaboration and coordination, and <strong>a lot of the time we don\u2019t even notice<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>The fact we don\u2019t notice them makes it difficult to notice when they may not be very strong, but we <em>always<\/em> notice when they aren\u2019t as strong in others. Therefore, others will always notice when they are not as strong in you.<\/p>\n<p>Practicing and mastering your interpersonal communication skills is a sure-fire way to boost your success in work and in your personal life. They can help you to communicate with those above you, as well as to collaborate with your peers. <strong>It\u2019s a simple matter of practice and understanding certain cues<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>There are two types of interpersonal communication skills:<strong> silent<\/strong> and <strong>conversational.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. Patience<\/h3>\n<p>Probably one of the most important of all interpersonal communication skills is patience. <strong>No employer wants to have to deal with troublemakers<\/strong>, and no colleague wants to work with the one who constantly loses their cool.<\/p>\n<p>This skill does not have specific cues; it simply takes practice. Keeping a level head in heated situations can be difficult. It helps to <strong>take a deep breath and focus on the outcome that will benefit you the most<\/strong> and act accordingly.<\/p>\n<p>Allow the other person to say their piece and respond in a respectful way. Employers will be much more appreciative of those who can keep their cool in stressful situations, and peers will be much more willing to collaborate with you.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, but patience in your personal life will achieve much more positive outcomes in relationships with family and friends.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Active Listening<\/h3>\n<p>Active listening isn\u2019t just paying full attention to <em>who<\/em> is speaking, but also <em>what is being said<\/em>. Although it can be easy to get distracted and bored through long meetings, practicing active listening will be endlessly beneficial.<\/p>\n<h4>Cues:<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Eye contact<\/li>\n<li>Nodding<\/li>\n<li>Verbal Affirmations<\/li>\n<li>No distractions<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The best way to practice interpersonal communication skills such as active listening is to practice. Put away all potential distractions. Put your phone in your bag and keep it silent. Pay attention to what is being said and, at the end of a meeting or conversation, summarise it to yourself to make sure you understood.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Positive Body Language<\/h3>\n<p>Boredom and disinterest will be easy to read through your body language if you are not careful. So, even if you are bored and disinterested, <strong>make sure you don\u2019t show it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h4>Cues:<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Open, relaxed posture<\/li>\n<li>Eye contact<\/li>\n<li>Smiling<\/li>\n<li>No distractions<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Avoid:<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Folded arms<\/li>\n<li>Slouching<\/li>\n<li>Looking around<\/li>\n<li>Checking the time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Positive body language shows that you are interested in what is being said by a superior, but also makes you much more approachable to peers and employees.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Combining positive body language with active listening is the key to success<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Verbal Communication<\/h3>\n<p>Verbal communication is essential in all areas of life. The ability to communicate, or lack of ability, can <em>make or break<\/em> a presentation, and even\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/communication-psychology-hacks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">change the route of a conversation<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>When presenting information, <strong>make sure that you know and understand your material<\/strong>. Prepare for the presentation and make sure that you make plenty of eye contact and speak slowly and clearly. Presentations require confidence and relaxation, so the better you know your stuff, the better you will come across.<\/p>\n<p>In conversations, have a friendly disposition, ask questions and clarify any information you have to offer. <em>Allow yourself to relax<\/em> and be clear when you speak. Don\u2019t forget to make eye contact and practice that all-important positive body language.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Relating to Others<\/h3>\n<p>Relating to others is the most underestimated of all interpersonal communication skills. <strong>Nobody likes to feel as though they are being patronized<\/strong> by a boss or college, so if you are in a position of power, take note.<\/p>\n<p>You do not always have to agree with someone, but situations where disagreements arise, the ability to relate to others is especially important. Make sure to stay patient and <em>let them know that you understand<\/em> their position or opinion, but that you simply disagree with it.<\/p>\n<p>If you have to give orders, do so in a respectful manner, and don\u2019t underestimate how far a <strong>\u2018please\u2019<\/strong> and <strong>\u2018thank you\u2019<\/strong> will get you!<\/p>\n<p>Interpersonal communication skills are some of <em>the most basic communication skills<\/em> that we use on a daily basis. So much so that we don\u2019t think about how important it is to practice them. As you can see, all of these interpersonal communication skills connect to one another, so it can be easy to forget all of the skills we need to use in different situations.<\/p>\n<p>The more you practice, the easier it will be to understand the skill the situation calls for and the more successful your interactions will become.<\/p>\n<p>If you are looking for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifeadvancer.com\/daily-habits-of-successful-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">success<\/a> in your professional or personal life, interpersonal communication skills are a very simple tool to help you achieve it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>References<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/jacquelynsmith\/2013\/11\/15\/the-20-people-skills-you-need-to-succeed-at-work\/#551c07da3216\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>By Francesca F.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Interpersonal communication skills are essential in creating success, and they\u2019re so simple to learn. 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